Soul Care - Compassion
by Mary Elsbury
Dr. Jean Grey
Storm
Batgirl
Wonder Woman
You might be in the camp of loving action movies. You know the ones –someone in the movie can fly or bend a metal bar with a slight tap. Another person can see through a brick wall or transform from an ordinary object into a huge vehicle for good. These heroes come in all shapes and sizes, from having the latest technology to mystical powers and abilities.
As women, we are often faced with these larger-than-life examples and wonder, “what’s my superpower?” Let’s be honest and realistic. Superpowers are from the creative minds of the movie industry. We can’t compare. But going deeper, we do have similar qualities that are far more superior.
A true hero is willing to fight for what is right. They don’t show off and can usually be found minding their own business. They are brave enough to admit when they need help and see a task through to the end. These individuals see what's happening in their neighborhoods, workplace, or groups and step up to fill in the gaps. They are willing to volunteer at an after-school program where a child confides that they have seen their mother abused and their only friend is a stuffed animal to talk to.
Another trait is showing respect to others. They respect all individuals, regardless of race, creed or religion, and command respect through the honorable way she treats others. This characteristic is shown by being unfailingly honest and by showing mercy to those who deserve it. A superhero becomes a role model by adhering to the virtues that people respect the most. They open doors for others, don’t talk down or make fun of people, and attempt to negate stereotypes.
How about humility? Many heroes show humility and discretion by hiding their identities. Their intelligence, love for their families and their humility drive them to create a secret identity to protect their loved ones and avoid the limelight.
Probably the most attractive superpower is that of compassion. Heroes see a need and respond. True compassion goes beyond the understanding of another person’s suffering. Compassionate people feel compelled to do something to help or relieve the suffering they are confronted with.
Would you describe yourself as a compassionate person? Even if you don’t necessarily see yourself that way, I bet you’re compassionate at least some of the time, maybe when you’re well-rested and not in a hurry, or with your closest friends. Compassion often includes four touchpoints:
Bringing attention or awareness to recognizing that there is suffering
Feeling emotionally moved by that suffering
Wishing there to be relief from that suffering
A readiness to take action to relieve that suffering
The word compassion literally means to “suffer together” or “co-suffering.” When you feel for those around you, you can’t stand by and watch someone else suffering. You are motivated to take action to stop the pain or help. Scripture is filled with so many examples of compassion. The mere fact that Jesus laid His life down shows the depth of His compassion for you.
As a woman, we are capable of all these heroic traits and more through the power of Jesus Christ. So, the next time you feel overwhelmed by circumstances and life, cling to the truth that you are known, valued, and loved by God. Read through Proverbs 31 for encouragement. Unfurl your superhero cape and wear it proudly!
